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Shandar
Smith was born at 5-50am August 4th 1988 at
Royal Women's Hospital weight 6lb 5oz.
Shandar was never going to be anything but slim
because it was always difficult to get her to eat
anything.
At 9 months of age she decided crawling hurt the
knees too much and took her first steps. From
there she was never to stop to wonder why things
happened -- she just did them.
Shandar's early years were in the company
of adults only and she grew with a maturity well
beyond her years. At the age of 4 she could no
wait to visit the hospital when she was told of
the birth of her sister, Tiana. She arrived at
the hospital with her Grandmother and just wanted
to hold her little sister.
Pre-School was around the corner and Shandar was
ready. It was here that she met one of her many
life-long friends. He was special as his
mother had become her sponsor and Godmother when
confirmed at school.
Shandar commenced school at St. Finbarr's in
1994. Shandar never liked change and took a
little while to settle, but the presence of her
friends helped her to adjust and eventually she
became an academic achiever and a keen sports
person.
Not long after Shandar commenced school, she
competed in the State Titles in Artistic Roller
Skating, for which she had a natural talent. Her
first competition had been only three weeks
earlier and she had taken gold medals at the
local level, but she surprised everyone ( except
her coach) by winning gold medals in both the
events she competed in and becoming State
Champion in her age group. Shandar continued
winning medals in artistic skating until she saw
speed skating and decided that this was going to
be her sport. Again she progressed quickly
through the ranks and was selected in the
Queensland team to skate at Nationals as
the "Baby" of the team. Her efforts
were rewarded when she teamed with another junior
and a master skater to win a bronze medal in the
Open Women's Relay -- A national open medal at 11
years of age.
Her skating ability was to be proved when she
flew to New Zealand in February 2000. Although
Shandar had been sick on and off since Christmas,
she competed in this major competition, to be
placed fourth. Not a bad result considering she
was diagnosed with a brain tumour within 48
hours of her arrival back into Australia.
On
March 7th 2000, Dr. Scott Campbell, together with
some very talented surgeons and medical staff, successfully
removed the tumour and weeks of intensive radium
treatment commenced to combat the cancer.
Severe sickness and loss of hair showed the first
cracks in the internal strength of Shandar.
However she fought on to battle and recover, only
to relapse in October 2001. The tumour grew in
the bone marrow in her hips -- A very rare occurrence.
Shandar agreed to chemotherapy and whispered to
her Grandmother that she would not let it beat
her and fought it again.
During
this ordeal, Shandar attended school at Mount St.
Michael's College. With the support of her
many friends from both school and skating, she
did win again and went into remission in May
2002. Shandar did not seem to recover as well
this time around, but recommenced school full
time. Unfortunately she was not able to skate
again due to the weakness of her body after the
relapse.
On
the 6th of February 2003 Shandar was told that
the cancer had regrown. For the first time in her
life, her maturity cracked as she wept openly
with her mother. Even though the news was such,
she returned to school to continue her learning
while her health allowed her. Her
attendance was brief as hospital visits
punctuated her timetable and eventually tiredness
meant she slept much of the day. As each day
passed she got weaker, but spent her days
outwardly brave, but worried about becoming a
burden on her family.
Shandar
commenced Year 11 with enthusiasm and looked
forward to her time ahead with her friends.
Unfortunately, the disease would not allow this
and she was hospitalised.
Shandar's
inner strength was the part that made her so
special, and her legacy is that this strength is
given to others as she fought with all her might,
without giving up hope, and always looking to the
future
SHANDAR
PASSED AWAY
PEACEFULLY ON
24TH
FEBRUARY 2004
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